Reading wrong signals about a guy’s feeling is hurtful it is like stepping in a hot charcoal. Typically, boys have a hard time in expressing their real emotions, others express it and a few keep it as a secret. If you want to know if the boy loves you or not, here are some sure fire tips that are guaranteed than plucking flower petals from your neighbor’s garden.

Cut off your communication - do not be tempted to call and beg for reconciliation. Doing this will make your ex think that in anytime he wants you to be there you will immediately appear.

Be active - do not resort to alcohol or drugs just to ease the hurt you are feeling. This will do no good-- why not go shopping, join an organization or meet new singles? However, do not take revenge to male specie because the doings of your ex-bf is different from him.

Talk to your family or friends - burst your pain to them, they are good source of advice and help. They can shed light to your puzzled heart and mind. Surrounding yourself with loving families and friends will help your recovery after the breakup faster.

Start a new beginning - breaking up signifies a new start of life. Leave all the sorrows and bad memories behind. Do not linger anymore with the good days you had with one another. It will just bring you in tears and pain.

Learn to accept that it is over - do not fantasize that you can still mend the broken relationship. You maybe in the stage of denial but learn to accept that those sweet days are over and deal with it. It may prickle your heart and give lonely days but that is reality.

Have a positive mind - you might instill in your mind that all your would-be relationship may end in splitsville. Remember, there are far more great guys in the world so there is nothing to worry about. Break-up is already a part of a relationship. It teaches you to be strong in the midst of storms that will come in your life.

Forgive your ex - you cannot move on for a spanking new life if you still have resentments with your past partner. Forgiving is one of the most beautiful attitudes to have. It will give you a happy heart and calm mind.

No matter how you deal in getting over your ex always remember it is useless to cry over spilt milk.